On Love

"Love... is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident."
- Louis de Bernières, Captain Corelli's Mandolin

This collection is about that art and those accidents.

The true meaning of family ties

The loneliness epidemic

Folie à deux: the madness of two

On Emotion

On attraction and love

Attractiveness might be more about the environment, than about you

Coming together - the pattern of friendship and love

The most powerful way to get someone to like you, is to like them first

Sexual Attraction - What turns us on in others?

How being clumsy makes you better looking (according to psychologists)

Why polygamy might be more natural than you thought

The Friendship Checklist

Four ways to be attractive (and one you've probably overlooked)

Four definitions of attractiveness that'll change how you view it

How conversation sparks intimacy

What is love?

Coming apart - the pattern of relationship breakdown

Don't waste time on 'promising' relationships

Why 'control' isn't always a bad thing (but can be)

Three random things that make you more attractive

Do you believe in destiny? Or growth? The rules that govern relationships

What we want in our partners (it's more simple than you think)

Three hidden needs that control our relationships

The four most common causes of conflict in relationships

Five kinds of arguments that get us nowhere

Four common problems men and women have when talking to each other

Why some people are 'cold', others are 'clingy', and some just can't let go

The five types of couple and the 'magic' rule for relationship stability

Sex is about more than making babies.

The Four Types of Relationships

What's Love Got to do With It?

The Types of Love - From Friends to Flings

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