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"We are all so curiously alone, that's why it's important to make signals through the glass."
- Marina, So Much To Tell You

This collection is about those signals, and that glass.

The true meaning of family ties


The loneliness epidemic


Successful Prophets


Folie à deux: the madness of two


Weber's 'charismatic leader' is misleading


Zone of Proximal Development


On Emotion


Why people lie to you (and you let them)


The absurd artificial divide that's making money off racism


We're setting goals wrong, we're missing the point, and it's troubling


We don't live in a true democracy, but that can be our strength


Who was Plato and Why Should We Care


On attraction and love


The false promise of a return to nature


The three reasons why everyone is so 'cliquey'


Attractiveness might be more about the environment, than about you


Coming together - the pattern of friendship and love


Learned helplessness is darker (and less understood) than you think


The most powerful way to get someone to like you, is to like them first


Sexual Attraction - What turns us on in others?


How being clumsy makes you better looking (according to psychologists)


Why polygamy might be more natural than you thought


The Friendship Checklist


Four ways to be attractive (and one you've probably overlooked)


Four definitions of attractiveness that'll change how you view it


Children strike back - Bobo doll experiments


How conversation sparks intimacy


Coming apart - the pattern of relationship breakdown


Why 'control' isn't always a bad thing (but can be)


Are people always shutting you down? This might be why (and the reason might surprise you)


Three random things that make you more attractive


Do you believe in destiny? Or growth? The rules that govern relationships


What we want in our partners (it's more simple than you think)


Three hidden needs that control our relationships


The four most common causes of conflict in relationships


Five kinds of arguments that get us nowhere


Four common problems men and women have when talking to each other


Why some people are 'cold', others are 'clingy', and some just can't let go


The five types of couple and the 'magic' rule for relationship stability


Sex is about more than making babies.


The Four Types of Relationships


What's Love Got to do With It?


The Types of Love - From Friends to Flings


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