September 11, 2020
I'm starting to suspect that something is missing from our narratives surrounding the influence of cult leaders.
This is a compendium article.
Status: in development.
Folie à deux describes a rare and curious phenomenon: when the madness of one becomes shared by another. Delusions of grandeur or paranoia spread and together two people engage in the most bizarre acts.
But folie à deux only occurs in very specific contexts—when lonely people are isolated together, and an intense intimacy forms. It is when these circumstance arise that we see couples, or triads, or families, go out into the world and murder, or kill themselves, or run for days from mysterious followers.
Which begs a question. When loneliness is so endemic in modern life, why do cases of folie happen so rarely? I would suggest that they do not. Rather, the cases of folie that we come across are simply the most outlandish examples of behaviour isolated people engage in. When humans are isolated, and we stumble across a home in someone else, we will go to unimaginable lengths to hold on to that connection.
Emotional contagion, spirituality, and unusual beliefs
The core features of a folie are not simply a common delusion, or the acceptance of that delusion, but intimacy in the context of isolation.
Catching feelings is an extremely common phenomenon in humans. It's called emotional contagion. If someone smiles at you, you smile back. If someone shows they like you, that is possibly the most powerful determinant of your attraction to them. Our ability to catch each other's feelings are so powerful, Facebook tried to study it (possibly illegally) and the mass media model is based around it.
If our capacity for emotional contagion is so powerful, what happens when we couple that with isolation? Our need for social contact is extraordinary. Loneliness is emerging as one of the single greatest threats to both physical and psychological well-being in the modern era. It seems likely that a lonely person would go along with some unusual beliefs to maintain contact. But coupled with emotional contagion, it seems similarly likely that a lonely person might catch those feelings while they're at it. Delusions often come with weighty emotional baggage. From delusions of grandeur inspiring pride and power, to delusions of persecution inspiring terror and rage.
Antonio Damasio, a neuroscientist with some considerable academic celebrity, discovered early in the 2000's that damage to the amygdala left people unable to make decisions. They could describe the courses of action available to them in a given task. They could even identify which actions were more favourable. But they couldn't pull the trigger. The amygdala is a region crucially involved in the generation of emotions. The idea, according to Damasio's book Descartes' Error, is that decisions require emotions. Indeed, emotional decision-making may precede subsequent logical justification in many cases.
In the presence of such powerful emotions, our decision-making would likely be compromised. Coupled with isolation and a drive to connect, our decision-making may well derange.
Which brings me, finally, to my thesis. What phenomenon demonstrates all the features of a folie, from the symptoms to the outcomes? Where socially isolated people are likely to adhere to unusual beliefs, typically in the presence of a influential leader? The short answer is cults and the longer, less obvious answer is any ideologically-inclined figure with a basis in fact.
Very few explanations of cults centre on the experiences of the followers as central to the phenomenon. Rather they centre on the charismatic (and often corrupt) nature of the leader. And as religious phenomena, we are also often hesitant to explore the connections to the non-spiritual characteristics of the followers. And yet, it seems possible to me that this facet of being human belongs to the same family as our folies. Not for the madness, but for the emotional connection. We know that spiritual experiences can be a powerful feeling, and while they can be unique in many respects, they are feelings nonetheless.
Perhaps, then, a successful prophet has little to do with the leader at all. Perhaps successful prophets are built off the back of the people.
The (apparent) profile of a cult leader
Joe Navarro is a former FBI counter-intelligence agent and behavioural profiler, best known for his work on body language. In the media concerning the dealings of cult leaders though, his name crops up regularly. This has been particularly true among the overwhelming list of podcasts on the subject. This is perhaps because of his 2014 book Dangerous Personalities. But more likely, it is because his 2012 article on "Dangerous Cult Leaders" ranks on the first page in a search. It's a list of 50 "traits of cult leaders that give us hints as to their psychopathology", to quote Navarro.
This is an excellent starting point to demonstrate the bizarre way we imagine our prophets or charismatic leaders to be special. To credit Navarro, he makes it clear that it's no definitive list but simply his opinion. But I think that it generally details our collective opinion of cult leaders, and demonstrates why our collective opinion is a puzzling one.
Firstly, the number of items should concern us. These are Navarro's "typical traits" of cult leaders. But are we to assume that cult leaders will have all of them? Or only a few will suffice? How are we supposed to score our cult leaders? To compare, the modern version of Robert Hare's psychopathy checklist has only 20 items, and the scoring system is extremely clear. Up to two points per item, and a score of 30 of a maximum 40 to qualify as a psychopath.
The scoring problem isn't a trivial one. All together, these traits describe an extremely problematic person. But any item taken individually, or even in batches, simply describe character flaws any given person is likely to have. For example:
Is frequently boastful of accomplishments.
Doesn't seem to listen well to the needs of others; communication is usually one-way...
Some are more extreme, and less common:
When criticized he tends to lash out with not just anger but with rage.
Has stated that he is "destined for greatness" or that he will be "martyred".
But still not entirely strange. We've all met people like this, and typically they are not cult leaders.
Some refer solely to individuals with existing power over a group:
Makes members confess their sins or faults, publicly subjecting them to ridicule or humiliation while revealing exploitable weaknesses of the penitent.
Takes sexual advantage of members of his sect or cult.
But even these are not uncommon in groups. We each know of many groups that sexually exploit members for example. This might be something high-profile and obscene like the historic and apparently endemic issue of child sexual abuse in the Catholic Church. But consider even the relationships that form between students and professors. These are often characterised by the kind of power imbalance that would constitute 'taking advantage'. Power, like many things, is a vector for abuse. It's not surprising, or unusual. As for the humiliating confession of sins or faults, spend twenty minutes in the pub with some friends and pay any kind of attention to the banter. Is this the behaviour of a cult?
No. There is nothing special about Navarro's 50 traits. There is nothing particularly unusual about people with Navarro's traits.
So what is unusual about our cult leaders?
The narcissism bias
The common claim made of our more famous cult leaders is that they demonstrate traits of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Persons with NPD can demonstrate grandiosity, a lack of concern for others, and a fundamentally selfish orientation. They can also be superficially charming, because they can be very good at manipulating people in the interests of the narcissist. Since many of the cult leaders we stumble across seem selfish and grandiose, it seems like a fitting description. They're somehow damaged, and damaged in a way that makes them unusually good at manipulating people. But let's look a little closer at NPD.
Narcissistic personality disorder is a Cluster B personality disorder. This is a somewhat arbitrary distinction, but Cluster B describes personality traits that are extremely dramatic, erratic, or emotionally involved. There are two reasons NPD lives in this somewhat vague category. Firstly, because at the core NPD is characterised by a lack of self-esteem or self-worth. They might build a grandiose sense of self to protect themselves from the fact they feel awful about themselves. Any time this protection is threatened, they're liable to respond erratically and emotionally. The second reason is because NPD is also super vague. Grandiosity and superficial charm can appear. But both NPD and the less severe forms of narcissistic traits can take an enormous number of forms.
It may very well be that certain cult leaders have feelings of poor self worth, and this drives them to surround themselves with worshippers. Certainly many cult leaders have histories of neglect, suspected to be a key factor in culturing low self-worth. But even if this were the case, we would expect to see much more variation than "charming selfish person".
Cult leaders are often just kind of odd people
And, perhaps unsurprisingly, we do. Take the time to go and watch two videos—both well-known, and both accused to different degrees of being a 'charismatic cult leader'.
very charismatic...had a lot of charisma
Or according to Sam Harris on his podcast:
his powers of mesmerism is his quality of eye contact
But in the video, I don't see someone charismatic so much as someone somewhat deranged looking. He's not unattractive, but his wide staring eyes and dazed manner are off-putting. His content too, is not particularly appealing. His voice is not unpleasant, but his words are equal parts platitude and impenetrable new age jargon. If I saw Marshall Applewhite on the street, I would not be inclined to stop and chat.
Second, consider this video from the more recent Mary Teal Bosworth, or "Teal Swan", a currently active 'spiritual guru' who has been repeatedly accused of cult leadership.
Teal Swan has made an overwhelming number of videos like this dating back to 2011. I deliberately chose the most recent video to show that even after a decade of practice, Teal still comes off as your slightly drunk bohemian University student. She, like Marshall, is not unattractive. She also has an eye thing going on. But she's at times awkward and her content similarly either lacks real depth or is unintelligible. It's also a collection of fairly trite comments on the nature of human experience interspersed with standard new age spiritual jargon. And yet, here's the first result in a search calling her charismatic. In the podcast documenting her group, followers are repeatedly quoted as saying she has something special.
Both of these leaders are commonly portrayed as 'charismatic', drawing people in with their almost superhuman ability to connect. But they aren't. Not universally. They're just kind of odd people.
So what gives?
I suspect that the clue lies in the words of cult followers.
The key is in the words of the followers
But I haven't written this part yet.
Research questions for the future:
- Firstly, we are not here to arbitrate between prophets who are or are not sufficiently divinely inspired, we define success only by those who inspired followers since they all claim divine inspiration. As such, equally as interesting to us should be failed prophets.
- Cults spring most commonly during times (or among peoples) experiencing hardship. What do these conditions engender and is it related to isolation?
- Fundamentalism is a release of responsibility.
- Why are women more susceptible to cults?
- What is the distinction between minor followings (e.g. Heaven's Gate), to large followings (e.g. The People's Temple), to huge ones (e.g. Movement for the Restoration of the Ten Commandments)?
- Speaking of, why do they always kill themselves? Is this the same spectacularity bias as folie?
- What about non-religious cults like Synanon or Kenja? Why do these often veer in pseudo-religious directions (or is that merely biased perception)?
- Trends in the continuation of cults after the arrest/death/renunciation of the prophet (e.g. most interestingly because he wasn't dead, in the True Russion Orthadox Church)
- Jesus, among a sea of 'failed messiahs' from Judas the Galilean and Hezekiah, the Samaritan and the Egyptian, Simon of Peraea, and others, stands today alongside a long list of accepted prophets, and not just in Christianity. This is true (even this same list of prophets) for many religions. How might holy books tap into this current? Why do we no longer have accepted prophets on a large scale? Since many sects assume no divine intervention on an individual basis, has anyone explored the idea that we might be missing prophets?
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